The Secret to Understanding Peoples’ Sometimes Confusing Behavior

How do you feel when people send you mixed-signals?

And perhaps more importantly, how do you read them and respond to them?

You’ve had people tell you one thing, but then they didn’t follow-through on what they said they would, haven’t you?

In these situations, have you ever gotten excited and had high hopes because someone expressed interest in you, whether in terms of dating them or getting hired for a position, and you eagerly waited for the opportunity to be realized?

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Why Desperation Makes Us Act Irrationally and What to Do About It

Can you remember a time in your life where you acted desperate for someone’s time or attention?

Maybe you repeatedly called and texted them, even though they weren’t replying.

Maybe you even pleaded with them by giving them reasons why you’re worth their time.

Or maybe you even flattered them, hoping to win them over.

But what kind of response did you get from them?

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Why We Don’t Like Some People and What We Should Do About It

You’ve met someone you didn’t particularly like before, right?

But why didn’t you like them?

What about them turned you off?

Have you ever stopped to figure out exactly what it was about that person that made you not like them?

You know … the reason why.

Was it for any of these reasons...

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The Top Quality to Look for in a Long-Term Partner and Why It’s So Important

Aren’t disagreements and even arguments almost an inevitable part of being in a relationship with someone?

Aren’t they bound to come up?

And furthermore, can’t they be damaging to your relationship in the sense that, at least temporarily, they destroy the connection you have with your partner, and likely leave you both feeling ill towards each other for some time afterwards?

But have you ever asked yourself what’s responsible for such disagreements and arguments?

What is it that causes them to arise in our relationships?

And what are their usual outcomes?

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How to Quickly Develop Strong Connections with People

If you’re not currently the kind of person who knows how to talk to people in such a way that you quickly establish a strong connection with them, how interested would you be in learning how to do this?

Are you aware that some people have developed this ability and can often even connect much better and deeper with complete strangers than the connections those strangers have with the regular people in their lives?

But what’s the difference?

How can some people connect better with others, and often in a very short period of time, while other people sometimes have next to no connection with the people they’ve known for years?

Do you want to know the secret?

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A Fatal Conversation Blunder that Kills the Connection with People

When you hang-out with people, is it your aim to really and truly connect with them at a deep level?

If so, have you ever thought about what is responsible for creating those connections?

What’s the root cause behind them?

And are aware that people make a fatal blunder in their conversations that destroys any chance of these kinds of meaningful connections, and they do it without even realizing it?

Would you like to know what it is, so you can be prepared to handle this situation whenever it comes up in your conversations?

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An Overlooked Mistake People Make that Lowers Their Social Value

When you’re finished spending time with someone (or a group of people), how do you bring the interaction to a close?

How do you bid them good-bye?

Do you ever thank them for hanging out with you?

You know, do you ever say things like: “Thanks for coming down,” or “Thanks for having me over”?

If you do, have you ever questioned what you’re really communicating to them?

Are you aware that you’re actually communicating something negative about yourself by doing this?

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A Shameful Way People Damage Their Relationships (and What to Do About It)

Do you ever preach at people in your conversations with them?

Knowing they hold a conflicting or opposing viewpoint than your own, do you ever put in an effort to try to show them the errors in their thinking and try to correct or even “enlighten” them?

And taking it deeper…

Do you see it as your obligation or perhaps even your mission to convert people to what you believe is the truth, something to which you think the other person is ignorant of?

And finally, do you see this as doing them a great service or favor?

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